Do you know what the best way to steer clear from deception is? Trusting the right person! But, it is kind of hard to understand whether the person is trustworthy or not. In the era of cutting age competition, trusting someone is a big deal and especially when you are surrounded with double-faced people.
It’s your judgement call whether you should trust a person or not. Although, there exist several traits that you can find in a person who isn’t reliable. With these proven signs, you can at least protect yourself from potential cobweb. Here goes the list of signs predicting that you shouldn’t trust the person:
#They Are Over-friendly to Everyone Around
This is one of the main signs you shouldn’t trust the person. Everyone has a friend who is often over-friendly and that too with every single person around. Such people try to maintain a sugary relationship with people to gain benefits from them whenever possible. Not only this, this advantage system is usually a one way street for them as they don’t believe in returning the favor at all. You must identify these people so you don’t fall prey to cheating at any cost.
#They Act Differently in Various Situations
Do you know someone who is completely normal but always acts differently or weird around you. If so, then you have got to be cautious around that person right now. Untrustworthy people live like a chameleon. They analyze the ongoing situation and react accordingly in order to grow space for their advantage. There is no point in maintaining a healthy friendship with such people.
#They Reveal People’s Secrets with You
Revealing someone’s secrets to other people is nothing like a healthy gossiping. If a friend or a coworker of yours has a habit to discuss all the secrets they know, you must steer clear of these people. Consider the fact that they are sharing the secrets of someone who trusted them before. What’s the guarantee that they won’t reveal your secrets in front of other?
#They Have Cheated Their Friends Previously
Another crucial part of the signs you shouldn’t trust the person. It is said that once a cheater, always a cheater! I am not saying that people don’t deserve a second chance. Reliability is an important aspect and you can’t be suspicious about someone forever. But, if a person has already cheated their friends before, then you must also be careful about it. Give yourself some time and then decide what you need to do.
#They Often Try to Overpower You
I’ve seen people who try to boss around their friends and family to show their supremacy. A good and reliable friend will never try to control or overpower you. And, if someone does that, then they are not capable of being a good friend. Friends are there for a person to boost the confidence but some people just ruin the meaning of friendship.
#They Can Lie Like Professionals
Since we are talking about the signs you shouldn’t trust the person, the habit of lying also comes to the fore. There are some people who believe that lying is an art and you can keep benefits with this habit. But, these people don’t understand that it’s not something that lasts for long. Some people can lie to anyone and you are naturally included in that ‘anyone’.
#They Treat You Like the Last Option
This is the last part of all the signs you shouldn’t trust the person. This sign reminds me of an old school friend who used to pick people as per her preference for her shopping schedule. Actually, it wasn’t just me. Everyone in the school was aware of her behavior and that’s why they started ignoring her. Now, I realize that her behavior with her friends included all these above mentioned signs. I don’t want to sound negative here but I am glad I am not in touch with her anymore.
Nothing is fixed in life. Even though, the world is filled with crooks but there is always a way to deal with things. Besides, there are plenty of nice people too. So, if you are suspicious about a friend or a co-worker in your life, you can look out for the above mentioned signs to make things better.